Tools for listening to your body

Free tools to use between sessions, voices from our community, and the books that shaped this work.

Women in the community · Reading list

Sensations Wheel

Tight, heavy, warm, fluttery, numb, grounded: sensations are the nervous system’s first language. Notice them without adding a story, so your body becomes information, not a problem.

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Needs Wheel

Shifts the question from “What’s wrong with me?” to “What might I be needing right now?” Safety, rest, connection, autonomy and support, named with care instead of judgment.

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Emotions Wheel

Language beyond “fine”, “stressed” or “overwhelmed”. Choose what fits at your own pace. Naming an emotion can soften its intensity and help your nervous system settle.

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Women in the community

Voices we learn alongside.

Tree Carr

Tree Carr

Author • Dreaming Guide • Death Doula • Transpersonal Psychology

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Curly-haired woman in a red tunic holding a decorated staff in a forest

Catherine Beerda-Basso

Certified Earth Medicine, Shamanic & Trauma-Informed Practitioner • Writer • Photographer

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Books that shaped this work

On stress, trauma, the nervous system and the body, from physicians, researchers and therapists.

Book cover of The Myth of Normal by Gabor Maté, MD, with Daniel Maté, about trauma, illness, and healing in a toxic culture.

The Myth of Normal

Gabor Maté, MD

How modern culture shapes illness and health, and what “normal” really means.

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Book cover of Gabor Maté’s When the Body Says No: Exploring the Stress-Disease Connection.

When the Body Says No

Gabor Maté, MD

The connection between emotional stress and physical illness.

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Book cover of The Body Keeps the Score by Bessel van der Kolk, M.D., about brain, mind, and body in trauma healing.

The Body Keeps the Score

Bessel van der Kolk, MD

How trauma reshapes body and brain, and paths toward recovery.

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Book cover of “Polyvagal Theory in Therapy” by Deb Dana, with a foreword by Stephen W. Porges.

The Polyvagal Theory in Therapy

Deb Dana

Polyvagal theory in plain language, with practical mapping tools.

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Book cover for "Running on Empty: Overcome Your Childhood Emotional Neglect" by Jonice Webb, PhD, with Christine Musello, PsyD.

Running on Empty

Jonice Webb, PhD

Recognising and healing from childhood emotional neglect.

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Book cover of Mark Wolynn's It Didn't Start With You: How Inherited Family Trauma Shapes Who We Are and How to End the Cycle.

It Didn’t Start with You

Mark Wolynn

How inherited family trauma shapes who we are.

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